Developmental Basis for Seeking Assent
In pediatric care,
informed consent is legally provided by a parent or guardian, but
assent is the child’s own agreement to participate in care or treatment. The ethical principle of
respect for persons requires that children be involved in decisions as soon as they are developmentally able to understand basic information about what will happen and why
[1].
Assent is not the same as consent; it is a developmentally appropriate process that supports the child’s emerging self-determination while the parent retains legal decision-making authority.
Why School-Age Is the Appropriate Starting Point
The
school-age period (approximately
6 to 12 years) marks a major cognitive shift. Children in this stage move from the preoperational, egocentric thinking of the preschool years into
concrete operational thought. They can follow a simple sequence of events, understand cause and effect in a concrete way, and ask relevant questions about a procedure. This allows them to comprehend a basic explanation of what will be done, why it is needed, and what they can expect to feel
[1][3].
Meaningful assent requires the child to understand the information, appreciate that it applies to them, and express a voluntary choice—abilities that are not reliably present before school age.
The three components of assent—
information sharing,
comprehension, and
voluntariness—must be adapted to the child’s developmental level
[1]. A toddler cannot comprehend a treatment explanation or separate their own wishes from the parent’s. A preschooler may understand very simple words but still interprets events magically and cannot consistently appreciate consequences. By school age, the child can process concrete explanations and give a genuine “yes” or “no” that reflects their own understanding
[3][4].
How Assent Differs Across Developmental Periods
| Developmental Period | Cognitive Capacity | Role in Assent | Nursing Implication |
|---|
| Toddler (1–3 years) | Sensorimotor; no logical reasoning; limited language | Cannot provide assent; parent gives consent | Prepare parent; use distraction and comfort measures |
| Preschool (3–5 years) | Preoperational; magical thinking; egocentric | May be informed in simple terms but cannot give true assent | Explain immediately before procedure using concrete objects |
| School-age (6–12 years) | Concrete operational; understands cause and effect | Able to provide developmentally appropriate assent | Seek assent after explaining what will happen and why |
| Adolescent (13 years and older) | Formal operational; abstract reasoning; growing autonomy | Assent becomes more robust; may approach consent in some settings | Involve directly in decisions; respect emerging autonomy |
Clinical Application in the Pediatric Ward
In a setting where family members remain at the bedside and participate in care, the nurse should not assume that a quiet child agrees with the plan.
Key point! Seeking assent from a school-age child means giving a simple, honest explanation and then asking for the child’s agreement—not merely telling the child what will happen. If the child refuses, the nurse should pause, explore the reason, and collaborate with the parent and healthcare team. This does not override parental consent, but it protects the child’s developing autonomy and builds trust
[3].
Watch out! Do not confuse
assent with
consent. Consent is the legal authorization given by the parent or guardian. Assent is the child’s agreement, and it becomes ethically meaningful around school age. A toddler or preschooler may cooperate or resist, but neither response represents informed assent because the child cannot yet comprehend the relevant information
[1][4].
In summary, the nurse should begin seeking the child’s own assent during the
school-age period, when concrete operational thinking allows the child to understand simple explanations, appreciate that the information applies to them, and express a voluntary choice
[1][3].
References (research sources)
- [1]
Parental permission and child assent in research on children.Research articleRoth-Cline M, Nelson RM (2013)
- [3]
Ethics in Pediatric Decision-Making and Application Process: A Clinical Perspective.Research articleKurtoglu A, Arda B (2025) · DOI: 10.1016/j.ocl.2023.12.003
- [4]
Surgical informed consent in children: a systematic review.Meta-analysis/systematic reviewChotai PN, Nollan R, Huang EY, Gosain A (2017) · DOI: 10.1016/j.jss.2017.02.047