Growth is an increase in physical size (weight, length, head circumference). Development is a gradual increase in skill and capacity (motor, cognitive, language, social, emotional). Maturation is change driven by genetic timing. Nurses use developmental theories to predict what a child can understand, what a child fears, and how to communicate, teach, and play with them.
Principles of growth and development
- Directional: cephalocaudal (head to tail — head control before sitting, sitting before standing), proximodistal (center to periphery — shoulder and arm control before finger control), and general to specific (whole-hand grasp before pincer grasp)
- Sequential and predictable: every child passes through the same stages in the same order (e.g., head control → sitting → standing → walking)
- Rate varies: fast in the fetal period, infancy, and adolescence; slower in the preschool and school-age years; each child has an individual pace
- Critical (sensitive) periods: times when the child is especially responsive to positive or harmful influences (e.g., language exposure, visual input)
- Interrelated: physical, cognitive, and psychosocial areas influence each other; heredity and environment both matter
- Continuous and cumulative: earlier stages form the base for later ones
Temperament (Thomas and Chess) describes a child's behavioral style from infancy: easy (regular, adaptable, positive mood), difficult (irregular, intense, withdraws from new situations), and slow-to-warm-up (mild, adapts slowly). "Goodness of fit" between temperament and parenting style supports healthy development.
Freud — psychosexual theory
| Stage | Age | Focus | Fixation (unresolved) may lead to |
|---|
| Oral | 0–1 year | Sucking, biting, mouth | Dependency, overeating, smoking |
| Anal | 1–3 years | Bowel and bladder control (toilet training) | Excessive orderliness, stubbornness, stinginess (or the opposite: messiness) |
| Phallic | 3–6 years | Genitals; Oedipus/Electra complex, identification with the same-sex parent | Difficulties with gender role and authority |
| Latency | 6–12 years | Sexual drives quiet; energy goes to learning, skills, same-sex peers | — |
| Genital | 12 years and older | Mature sexuality, relationships | — |
Erikson — psychosocial theory (each stage has a central task)
| Stage | Age | Positive outcome |
|---|
| Trust vs. mistrust | 0–1 year | Consistent, responsive caregiving → trust (inconsistent care → mistrust) |
| Autonomy vs. shame and doubt | 1–3 years | Doing things "by myself," saying "no," choices |
| Initiative vs. guilt | 3–6 years | Plans activities, imagination, develops conscience |
| Industry vs. inferiority | 6–12 years | Achievement, completing tasks, competence; failure → inferiority |
| Identity vs. role confusion | 12–18 years | Sense of who they are |
| Intimacy vs. isolation | Young adult | Close relationships |
Piaget — cognitive theory
| Stage | Age | Key features |
|---|
| Sensorimotor | 0–2 years | Learns through senses and movement; object permanence develops (begins about 4–8 months, established toward the end of the first year and refined to about 2 years); cause and effect; imitation |
| Preoperational | 2–7 years | Language and symbolic (pretend) play; egocentrism, animism (objects are alive), magical thinking, centration; no conservation; irreversible thinking |
| Concrete operational | 7–11 years | Conservation (amount stays the same when shape changes), reversibility, classification, seriation (ordering by size), decentering; logic limited to concrete, real objects |
| Formal operational | 11 years and older | Abstract and hypothetical-deductive reasoning; thinks about the future, ideals, possibilities |
Sensorimotor substages: reflexes (0–1 month) → primary circular reactions (1–4 months; repeats actions involving own body) → secondary circular reactions (4–8 months; repeats actions that produce an interesting effect, like shaking a rattle) → coordination of secondary schemes (8–12 months; intentional, goal-directed behavior, searches for hidden objects) → tertiary circular reactions (12–18 months; experiments to see what happens) → mental representation (18–24 months; deferred imitation, early pretend play).
Kohlberg — moral development
| Level | Stages | Typical age |
|---|
| Preconventional | 1. Punishment and obedience; 2. Instrumental exchange ("what's in it for me") | Toddler, preschool, early school-age |
| Conventional | 3. "Good boy–good girl" (seeks approval, pleases others); 4. Law and order (follows rules, respects authority) | School-age to adolescence |
| Postconventional | 5. Social contract (laws are agreements that can change by democratic means; individual rights); 6. Universal ethical principles | Adolescence or adulthood; many adults never reach it |
Piaget's moral stages (useful for young children): heteronomous morality (about 4–7 years — rules are fixed and set by authority; wrongness is judged by the size of the consequence, not intent) → autonomous morality (about 10 years and older — rules can change; intentions matter).
Attachment (Bowlby, Ainsworth): an emotional bond with a primary caregiver, built through sensitive, consistent response to the infant's cues. Securely attached children use the caregiver as a safe base to explore. Stranger anxiety and separation anxiety appear in the second half of the first year as attachment forms.
Play development
| Type | Typical age | Description |
|---|
| Solitary | Infancy | Plays alone |
| Onlooker | Toddler | Watches others play, may talk but does not join |
| Parallel | Toddler | Plays beside, not with, other children |
| Associative | Preschool | Plays together with shared activity but no organized roles or rules |
| Cooperative | School-age | Organized play with rules, roles, and goals (teams, board games) |
Developmental screening tools identify children who may need a full evaluation. They are not diagnostic tests and do not measure IQ.
- Denver II (DDST-II): screens four domains — personal-social, fine motor-adaptive, language, and gross motor — from birth to 6 years; results are normal, suspect, or untestable. Its purpose is to identify children at risk of developmental delay. It is still a common exam item; in current US practice ASQ-3 and similar parent-report tools are preferred
- Ages and Stages Questionnaires (ASQ-3): parent-completed; widely used in primary care
- M-CHAT-R/F: autism screening at 18 and 24 months
- Full evaluation (developmental pediatrics, psychology, speech, occupational and physical therapy) follows a positive screen
- For preterm infants, use corrected age (chronologic age minus weeks born early) until about 2 years
This is a conceptual topic; "management" is early identification and early intervention.
- Developmental surveillance at every visit and standardized screening at set ages
- Referral to early intervention services for suspected delay; do not wait for a child to "grow out of it"
- Interdisciplinary team: pediatrician, nurse, therapists, educators, social worker
- Treat contributing conditions (hearing loss, vision problems, anemia, lead exposure, neglect)
Apply theory to everyday care. Listed from most to least urgent in a clinical setting.
- Ensure safety matched to developmental stage — infants mouth objects (oral stage, sensorimotor), toddlers explore without judgment of danger, preschoolers think magically
- Infant (trust): meet needs promptly and consistently; keep the same caregivers; support parent–infant contact; comfort after procedures
- Toddler (autonomy): offer simple, real choices; allow self-feeding and dressing; keep routines; expect "no" and regression during illness
- Preschooler (initiative; preoperational): explain with concrete words and therapeutic play; correct beliefs that illness is punishment; use bandages over puncture sites; limit explanations to what they will see and feel
- School-age (industry; concrete operational): give tasks to complete (record fluid intake, help with dressings), use diagrams and models, praise effort, keep up schoolwork
- Adolescent (identity; formal operational): explain the reasons and long-term consequences, involve in decisions, respect privacy, allow peer contact
- Screen and refer abnormal development; document milestones
- Development follows a sequence, but timing varies — compare the child with their own progress and with the range for their age, not with siblings
- Responsive, warm caregiving builds trust and secure attachment; responding to a crying infant does not "spoil" them
- Toilet training works best when the child shows readiness; harsh or early training creates power struggles
- Provide age-appropriate play: it is the "work" of childhood and a main route to learning
- Report loss of skills or failure to meet milestones promptly
- Loss of previously acquired skills (regression) at any age outside of temporary stress-related regression — needs evaluation
- No social smile, poor eye contact, or no response to name in infancy; no babbling by about 12 months; no words by about 16–18 months; no two-word phrases by about 24 months
- Persistent primitive reflexes, asymmetric movement, or hand preference before about 12–18 months
- Lack of attachment behaviors or indiscriminate friendliness in a young child (possible neglect)
- Persistent problems at school, social withdrawal, or behavior change in older children
- Development is cephalocaudal, proximodistal, general to specific; the order is fixed, the pace varies
- Erikson: trust (0–1) → autonomy (1–3) → initiative (3–6) → industry (6–12) → identity (12–18)
- Piaget: sensorimotor (object permanence) → preoperational (symbolic play, egocentrism, animism, magical thinking) → concrete operational (conservation, reversibility, classification, seriation) → formal operational (abstract, hypothetical-deductive)
- Secondary circular reactions (4–8 months) = repeating an action for its interesting effect
- Freud: anal fixation → orderliness, stubbornness, stinginess; Oedipus/Electra complex = phallic stage (3–6 years)
- Kohlberg: "good boy–good girl" and law-and-order = conventional; social contract and universal principles = postconventional
- Piaget moral: preschoolers see rules as fixed (heteronomous)
- Play: parallel (toddler) → associative (preschool) → cooperative (school-age)
- Denver II screens for delay in 4 domains; it does not diagnose or measure IQ
- Use corrected age for preterm infants until about 2 years
Country Notes
United States
- The AAP recommends standardized developmental screening at the 9-, 18-, and 30-month visits; ASQ-3 is among the most common tools.
Philippines
- The ECCD Checklist (Early Childhood Care and Development Council) is the locally validated developmental monitoring tool, used in day care centers and by health workers for children under 5.